Breaking the never ending cycle of addiction is a tough thing to do, especially when you are not the addict. Addiction surprisingly begins at home, from the very first moment you give your child sugar. And in that moment the child becomes addicted. Who doesn’t get addicted when it comes to delicious things that aren’t good for you?. As the child grows they begin to have more addicting things like coffee.
Another thing about addiction is when there is kids who are raised in a home where all they see is addiction to drugs and alcohol. They grow up thinking it is okay to drink alcohol to party in their teenage years, but who is to help them if the parent is an addict themselves?. I grew up with an alcoholic mother in my life but on the other hand my father was no where near being an addict other than being a workaholic. Thankfully I had my father to guide me into the right direction. Years later I’m raising children other than my own who come from families with the illness of addiction. The struggle with them everyday, is them not knowing right from wrong when all they knew was not always right. I begin to struggle with the teenager when she becomes experimental with drugs and alcohol. I do not agree with under age drinking. I do not want to become responsible for anything going wrong, especially when it is done in my own home. How do you parent these teens and help them to understand there is more out there to help with emotional trauma. Drugs and alcohol will only numb their pain but it will never take it away.
Unfortunately they run to what they have known for all their life, the addicts themselves that were in their life and they seek attention and they give them exactly what they want. They give them that excuse that it is okay to do what they are doing. Its time to break that cycle its time to stand up for what you think and know is right and that is leading them away from that life where drugs and alcohol numb the pain but for only a short while… Speak up to the addicts and let them know they are leading these innocent kids in the wrong direction. They need self care in another way than addiction. Its time to break that cycle of addiction in the family and hope for brighter days to come where drugs and alcohol aren’t the answer to every bad situation.